How to Support Your Child’s Martial Arts Journey Without Hovering

You want your child to succeed at Strickland’s Martial Arts —and in life.

But it’s very easy to cross the line from being a “supportive” parent to being “hovering” parent.

So how do you stay involved without overdoing it? Here are some key tips:

1. Let Them Struggle (A Little)

It’s natural to want to jump in when your child forgets a move or looks confused. But sometimes, the best growth happens through them figuring it out on their own.

2. Ask Questions, Don’t Give Feedback

Instead of saying, “You didn’t do that right,” try, “What part of class felt hard today?” You’ll open the door to deeper reflection—and keep the instructor-student dynamic strong in the school.

3. Focus on Character Over Performance

Did they bow respectfully? Help a classmate? Show effort even when tired? Celebrate that more than “winning” in class. Don't get me wrong we love a winner, who doesn't? But character, regardless of the outcome, makes a true winner.

4. Trust the Process

Remember: Progress is rarely linear. There will be plateaus, growth spurts, and messy middle stages. The best thing you can do?

Cheer from the sidelines and let them own their journey.

Kids need space to grow—and parents who believe they can!